I wanted to take a moment to introduce myself. My name is DK and I
just joined the group. I live in Boise, Idaho and I have been on the
diet for officially one week. I¡¦m writing this message to introduce
myself, and at the same time¡Xintroduce my brother and some of his
struggles to the group.
My background is pretty boring. I¡¦m pretty athletic. I played sports
in high school, and I have continued to be very active in sports
(basketball, triathlons and marathons) for the past several years.
It is fortunate that I¡¦m active, because the second I stop
exercising¡Kmy weight balloons. I fluctuate around 225lbs. I¡¦m 6¡¦2.
I decided to participate in the diet when I heard several family
members were taking it on. I like a challenge, and thus entered the
diet full bore. In my first week, I lost 9 lbs. I was happy with the
results and I felt like I had plenty of energy in my training and
exercise. I also never felt hungry which is key. This is where I¡¦m
at with the diet (I¡¦m eating a cheese stick as I type º )
Now, I want to address a more serious issue. I have an older brother
that I care about very much. We have always been close and share
similar interests. Yet, he has let his body get away from him. At
one point, I believe he weighed around 400lbs if not more. Yet, he
has had the gastric bypass surgery and reaped the benefits of that.
Yet, the benefits of that surgery are over. He now weighs around
350lbs. At one point, I think we was close to 300lbs. Yet, he has
gained quite a bit back. I would guess he is only around 5¡¦9¡¦¡¦ and
has the ever popular ¡§apple shape¡¨ referenced in the South Beach
Diet.
I have tried to help my brother lose weight on countless occasions.
He has participated in a few diets¡Kand in turn given up. Exercise
has been tough for him to implement on a continual basis. I have
even pleaded my desires for my brother¡¦s weight loss to heaven. Yet
he is still in very poor shape. Due to this background, I introduced
him to the South Beach Diet on Sunday.
My motive in helping him revolves around so many factors. He is a
great guy. He is smart, happy, and likable. Everyone seems to enjoy
him. He has not become discouraged or depressed. In fact, I think in
his mind he really believes it is only a matter of time until he
turns the corner on his weight. I¡¦m hoping the diet will help. I
want him to have a full life. I want him to feel good. I want him to
be healthy enough to see his three kids grow up and get married. He
is only 36. He has so much life ahead of him. It is one thing to
survive life¡Kbut I want him to thrive in life. I want him to enjoy
things like swimming with a shirt off, or playing basketball, or
completing a triathlon. He talks about the rude comments he gets, or
how he can¡¦t run after his son¡Kwhen his son is headed for a busy
street. These factors drive me to help him. These factors are part
of the reason I joined this board. I¡¦m hoping to find support for
him.
Like I said, I have tried to encourage him on so many levels. One
step I took was setting up a blog for him. The blog is at
www.nomorecryingwolf.blogspot.com. The only reason I post the blog
site is because I¡¦m curious how some of you would respond to the
criticism he is getting over his participation in the South Beach
Diet. The blog basically has his daily efforts to lose weight. This
week he has stated that he is going on the South Beach Diet. The
reply that he is getting is very harsh. Multiple posters are
discouraging him from the South Beach Diet for various reasons. I am
new to the South Beach Diet, and I feel like the plan is pretty
scientific and basic. Yet, I¡¦m not sure how to reply to my brother
in relation to the South Beach Diet. If we can get a thread going on
how to respond to criticisms of the South Beach Diet¡Kor if someone
wants to reply to some of the negative comments on his blog¡Kfeel
free to¡Kand while you are at it¡Kencourage my brother that the South
Beach Diet is not a fad. Again, my only motive in posting this is to
help my brother.
Thanks